Monday, October 29, 2012

What Lesbians Are Looking For



 For a great deal of lesbians, finding a perfect partner can be as easy as going online to a lesbian dating website (or even some more general purpose online dating sites) and creating an informative profile that is interesting to others, and then just sit back and read the emails that will start to trickle in for the next few days. It can be that easy but you should also continue taking your own pro-active steps to meet someone. So spend some time reading other profiles online, because not only might you find some really interesting females to connect to, but you could also get some good ideas of things that you could have put in your profile or different ways of phrasing your profile to make it more interesting. If someone's wording or ideas caught your eye, then similar wording or ideas might help your profile catch someone else's eye. A great number of lesbians find themselves in groups of singles while they are doing things they enjoy, are at work, and attending social gatherings. Any special event that attracts you will also attract like minded individuals, so you should always be on the lookout for someone with interests compatible to  yours.

 A bad mistake that a lot of lesbians make when having their first relationship is moving too fast. Soon you might find yourself in bed next to a person that you barely know. Go out together for a while, take the time to explore what you have in common. You must have some common interests, values and plans for the future that will compliment each other. Share things with each other, if you get a new job, if a acquaintance has a baby, a wedding coming up, a commendation you might have gotten, be sure to involve your partner, you should not only think of them as your lover but also your best friend.

If you are at a family gathering or with friends and someone starts telling gay and lesbian jokes that are in bad taste and insulting to you and your partner, and you see your partner is upset by it, just get up and leave, tell them you came to enjoy yourselves not to listen to a lot of trash about how other people live their lives|One awkward situation would be to find yourselves at a social or family gathering and hear people dissing the gay and lesbian community at large. This will require you to make a stand and let people know that you will not tolerate statements of that nature. Insult them if you have to. Hopefully your family and friends understand your sexuality so you can then tell them that you are not at all happy about what was said, and if the attitude persists that you will have to find other people to hang out with. After all, who needs to go anywhere and be made to feel bad.

When it comes to your partner, make sure that you involve have them meet your family and friends as much as possible. It is important when you are trying to advance a relationship to involve your family and other friends as much as possible.

Lesbians are God's chosen people, especially when it comes to STD's like aids.. Women just totally understand how to please each other during sex.  Gay men are similarly blessed, but the aids specter spoils the fun a lot.  Pity the poor heterosexual couples where each party is not quite sure what makes the other either satisfied or happy.

Life is for living and enjoying, so live it to the fullest. Live, love and share your life with others, and surround yourself with friends and family who will be there for you in both good times and bad.

 Remember that other people may not be comfortable with a lifestyle that they are confused about so ensure that you at least surround yourself with friends and family who have a positive attitude to both you, your sexuality, and your situation.  Since you are lesbians, it would be best if you have understanding friends from the gay community at large. Open minded heterosexual friends are tough to find, so if you have a few, cherish them and nurture them.

One of the great secrets of the bible is that God created Adam and Eve, but then  after thinking it through made Eve a woman to keep her happy.


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