Helping Your Female Partner Have Orgasms

A few generations ago, most adult females never experienced and orgasm. In fact, a lot of them had no idea what an orgasm was.  Many women were brought up with no sexual instruction, and often made to believe that sex was a painful wifely duty. A twin study done in 2005 reported that one woman in three had never or seldom had an orgasm, and just one tenth always achieved an orgasm. As you can see, orgasms are rare or non-existent for many women. A woman who cannot have an orgasm has as frustrating a life as a man with an erectile disfunction.

So how can we change this, especially since almost all modern women desire orgasms. Well let's begin by exploring what a female orgasm really is.  An orgasm in women is not overly different from that in men-there is a peak of sexual excitement, in a moment of incredible enjoyment, and a pulsing, electric sensation that extends throughout the body.  The rhythmic contractions take place within the pelvic area as well as the walls of the vagina. Another difference here is that women don't experience a refractory period, and will usually be able to have many more orgasms with continued stimulation, often within a minute or two. In most women, there is no fluid ejaculated during orgasm.  This is important for men to understand so that they understand that a woman can have a completely satisfying orgasm without ejaculating.

With the right stimulation, most women can have multiple orgasms if they so desire.

Women all their sensual ducks in a row before they can achieve an orgasm. For instance:

1) Women  must feel appreciated, and wanted A situation charged with romance
3) A partner whom they really like
4) Tranquil surroundings
5) A partner that knows how to stimulate the clitoris

You will not have great success in giving your partner orgasms if you fail to provide most of the above.

Men need to know that women will have different varieties of orgasms---the most common is the clitoral orgasm.  The clitoris can be stimulated by fingers or through oral sex. The clitoral orgasm can have fluid expelled or be dry, and results in contractions within the uterus . Another type of orgasm is cntered on the G-spot. The G spot is a little harder to find: it is located on the upper side of the vagina – about one half way in. In most women the G-spot is about 3 inches into the vagina, and on the top side.  Gentle but firm pressure is required to find the G spot if the woman is not stimulated yet.  It is a slightly more pliable area about 1/3 of an inch in size. The location and size varies somewhat from woman to woman.  When properly manipulated, the G spot will result in a vaginal orgasm.

Figure 1, Internal Female Anatomy:




In summation, sex is something amazing that can provide both partners with intense pleasure. The following can help both of you have orgasms regularly:

1) Women like affection---use your hands, and or mouth to caress her body Be gentle, especially when touching her genitals, or rubbing her clitoris
3) Orally stimulate her breasts with kissing and gentle sucking
4) Be slow – unlike most sports, this is one situation where fast is definitely a bad thing
5) Ask her if she likes what you are doing and ask her to tell you what she wants
6) Be a tease- touching her pleasurable spots then withdrawing over, and over again. This will build arousal, and heighten orgasm.
7) Use your own natural lubrication to moisten her clitoris – however she may need additional lubrication, you can buy lubricants at any drugstore.
8) Learn her body- does her nipples get hard only during arousal or are they like that at other times
9) Try new things as variety can add to the pleasure
10) Do not push to try new things – experimentation must be mutual or else it will cause you to lose the moment

All men, can use this as a guide to helping your women have a more pleasurable experience, and helping her achieve many orgasms.

If you are an unsatisfied woman – convince your partner to read this article, after all, your entire future is at stake!

Good Luck!

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