If you are looking for tips on how to date women, then this post hopefully will give you a few courses of action. When you treat women correctly on the first date, they will will want to go out with you again, no matter what your financial position is or how you look. There is one key success factor, and that is charm, charm, charm. Although there is such a thing as too nice, girls will tend to forgive that. There is however, a few things you should not do such as:
1) Do not be too subservient such as
a. Making her feel so important that you are less in her eyes. If you are praising her or giving her a complement, do it jokingly. You will achieve the complement yet still appearing to be a person of substance and stature.
b. Asking her to compare you others – on a first date you will look like less because of the lack of history Do not force this comparison early; it is too soon to get into this level of feedback.
c. Ceding control of the date. Questions should not be open ended. If you are not sure of where she would like to go, then give her short list of things to do next. If she is not happy with any of the choices, then you have not done your homework as to what her preferences are. You have screwed up, you deserve to be dumped. (On subsequent dates, you can ask for ideas, but on a first date you should appear to be in charge, well planned, but flexible).
2) The next issue is trying to impress her excessively. Do not crow and breast beat, and do not say how much money you make. Just be a considerate partner, listen to her, and pick up the bill. The first date is all about her, it is not about you. If she queries about you, then answer them in something more than one word answers, but avoid excessive rhetoric, or else you are in the danger zone of saying too much and coming across as boasting or bragging.
3) Do not put her on a pedestal. That advice is more important if the woman is really attractive. Really attractive women are used to being on a pedestal. Did you ever notice how often that really attractive women are hanging out with bad boys? That is because bad boys treat them normally and they feel like they are being appreciated for what they are. In many cases the hoods treat them like crap, but they like that because it is just different, and different is special to them. Nothing is more tiring to beautiful women as unwanted attention – they have heard it all before. The better thing to do is to just ask them something about themselves, such as what they are doing, where they work, etc.
4) Being exclusive too soon in a relationship. both of you should be initially playing the field. If you come across as someone who would commit exclusively either on or just after the first date, you will seem desperate in their eyes. No woman wants to be dating a grasping loser. You have to come across as confident with women, and therefore more interesting in her eyes.
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